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Forkful of Facts with M - Edition 1 - The Real Secret 🎉

Hey friends, welcome back!

We’re officially rolling into the next phase of our blog series, and this week, we’re taking a big, juicy bite into nutrition — the kind that fuels results, supports your training, and makes everyday life feel better.

Now before you brace yourself for another “eat this, not that” list — take a breath. This blog isn’t about guilt, quick fixes, or trendy diets.

It’s about the stuff that actually works. The stuff that sticks. And the stuff you can do long-term, without losing your mind or your love for food.


🚫 First — Can We Please Stop Saying “Diet”?

Let’s just clear the air real quick...We’re not here to “diet.”


The word diet is so loaded with negativity. For a lot of people, it immediately brings up feelings of:

  • Restriction

  • Guilt

  • Obsession

  • Failure


And honestly? That’s not the vibe we’re going for. We’re aiming for strong, energized, confident, capable.

This isn’t about saying “no” to everything you love. It’s about learning how to fuel your body in a way that makes life better, not harder.

So instead of “going on a diet,” we’re building sustainable nutrition habits, building lifestyles — something you can live with, grow with, and thrive on.

💡 Better Food = Better Everything

Here’s something you might not hear often enough:

🧠 Your brain runs on the food you eat. 💤 Your sleep quality is tied to what you put in your body. 🏋️ Your workouts are only as good as your recovery. 🌟 Your energy, your focus, your mood — all connected to your nutrition.

If you’re constantly tired, foggy, moody, or dragging through your workouts, it might not be your training plan. It might be your fuel.

Food is your foundation. And when you get it right, everything else improves — naturally.

That’s why it’s worth the effort to learn how to make food choices that support your goals, not sabotage them.

🎯 Case Study: The Power of Consistency


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Some Celebration is in order! — a client and dear friend I’ve worked with closely for years. We’ve logged hundreds of hours together on long runs, workouts, and conversations about everything from life, injuries to race goals to, yep... nutrition.

After some ups and downs, a couple of injuries, and rebuilding the other pillars (movement, and mindset), we knew it was time to get serious about food. Not in a restrictive way — in a strategic way.

And here’s what happened: Over the course of months, she completely transformed. Not overnight. Not dramatically. But steadily, to produce dramatic results! Some weeks 100–200 grams per week, sometimes nothing. But it added up. And most importantly, it stayed off. Here’s the best part:

  • There were holidays.

  • There were birthdays.

  • There were treats and untracked meals. And yet — she kept moving forward.

Because she committed to doing the basics. Over and over and over again.

🔥 Let’s Talk Caloric Deficit (Without the Confusion)

Okay, let’s clear up one major thing — you can’t lose fat without a caloric deficit.

That means: 👉 You’re burning more calories than you’re consuming. 👉 You’re eating less than your body needs to maintain its current weight. 👉 It’s a numbers game — not a motivation game.

But here’s the good news: You don’t need to starve. You don’t need to “cut out carbs. ”You don’t even need to be perfect.

You just need to:

  • Understand your maintenance calories

  • Create a small, manageable deficit

  • Stick to it consistently (not obsessively)

  • Adjust when needed, not panic

Think of it like budgeting. If you overspend a little on Monday, you don’t blow your whole week. You just adjust on Tuesday.

📒 Tracking = Clarity (Not Shame)

If you’ve worked with me, you know I’m big on food logs. But not because I want to criticize what you eat or make you feel bad. That’s not the point.

Tracking gives you clarity. It helps you see what’s really going on. Because let’s be real — we’re all great at forgetting that extra handful of nuts, the latte we didn’t log, or that unplanned second helping.

When we track, we can answer questions like:

  • Are you eating enough protein?

  • Are you snacking more than you thought?

  • Are your “healthy” meals sneaky high in calories?

  • Are you under-fuelling and tanking your energy?

Data > Drama.

Tracking isn’t forever — but in the beginning, and part of your journey. it’s a tool that sets you free. BUT also a tool that can be used for life if you want.

📆 Planning + Repetition = Freedom (Not Boredom) Want to know a powerful habit that helped my client succeed?

Planning her meals — and repeating them.

Yes, repetition. It might not sound glamorous, but it works. Here’s why:

✅ It removes the daily decision fatigue ✅ It makes grocery shopping easier ✅ It stops you from reacting emotionally to hunger ✅ It reduces the risk of unplanned, high-calorie “oops” moments

If you already know what you’re eating on Tuesday at 8AM, and again on Thursday at 1PM, you’re 10 steps ahead of the game.

Meal variety is optional. Progress is not.

You don’t have to eat like a robot, but a few go-to meals on rotation can make life so much simpler — and results much more sustainable.

👊 Your Coach Can’t Do This For You

I can give you the tools. I can hold you accountable. I can show you what to eat, when, and why.

But here’s the truth you need to hear:

You have to do this for YOU.

No one is coming to save you. No coach, no plan, no tracker can do the reps — or make the choices — for you.

But also… no one can take this win from you. You own it. All of it. And that makes it so much more powerful.

🌟You’re More Capable Than You Think

Let me leave you with this:

You don’t need to be perfect. You don’t need to get it all right, all at once. But you do need to start.

Start tracking. Start planning. Start choosing the next best meal. Start fuelling your body like it deserves to be fuelled.

And trust me — when you do that? Your sleep gets better. Your workouts feel better. Your energy goes up. Your mood lifts. Your whole life improves.

💬 Ready to Start?

Need help figuring out your starting point? Want guidance with food tracking, protein goals, or building a weekly plan?

Drop me a message. Let’s make it personal. Let’s make it practical. Let’s make it stick.

Because you’re not just eating to lose weight. You’re eating to feel alive.

Thank you for joining me for another week on this journey toward better health and smarter choices. Remember — it’s not about perfection, it’s about consistency. Nutrition doesn’t need to be complicated. The real magic happens when you stick to the basics, fuel your body well, and keep showing up for yourself — one meal, one day, one choice at a time. You’ve got this!

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